From Castle Gates to Cumbrian Fells, Valentines love

From Castle Gates to Cumbrian Fells: A Silver Journey of Love

Valentine’s week always holds a sacred space in my heart. As a Lake District Celebrant, I’m always reminded of moments that celebrate love. Twenty-seven years ago, just after the cards and roses of February 14th had settled, I met my wife at the historic gates of Ludlow Castle. The next day I sent 12 red Roses.

Today, as I look back on 25 years of marriage, I find myself reflecting on where time goes. We often feel that life moves too fast. However, perhaps time only accelerates when it is “fulfilled”—packed tight with the joy of new grandchildren, the transition to a new home on the edge of the Lake District, and the rewarding, busy rhythm of life in the health service.

The Beauty of the “Everyday”

While the world celebrates Valentine’s Day with grand gestures, our celebrations are often found in the quiet, resilient moments: Resilience is that thing we need when broken love arrives  and death of loved one, together we can travel. and need to grab each day.

• The Morning Ritual:There are no “lie-ins” in our house, well for Nic as she food monitor, thanks to our faithful, four-legged shadow, Frodo. But those early walks in the crisp Lakeland air are where we find our “us time.”
  There are no “lie-ins” in our house, well for Nic as she food monitor, thanks to our faithful, four-legged shadow, Frodo. But those early walks in the crisp Lakeland air are where we find our “us time.”

• The Digital Scrapbook:The way old memories pop up on our phones—reminding us of friends lost but never forgotten, and the new faces that have joined our circle along the way.
• The New Chapter:
  Moving house and stepping into the role of grandparents has reminded us that love is ever-evolving. It’s about finding a “right path” together, even when the terrain changes.

A Celebrant’s Perspective on Passion

In my work as a celebrant, I have the profound honour of walking alongside families during their most pivotal moments  of life and death. Relationships have ups and downs. People often ask what makes a ceremony truly special. My answer is always the same: The Power of Listening.

To weave a story that truly reflects a person or a couple. We must first listen to the silences between the words. Passion isn’t just found in the “I do”; it’s found in the resilience  of life that follows. It’s in the way a couple navigates loss, celebrates growth, and builds a legacy within their  homes, work and community.

An Inclusive Toast to Every Story

Whether you are celebrating 25 years,  or starting a fresh chapter in a new relationship;  or  community, or remembering a love that remains in your heart even if they are no longer here—your story matters.

I have found. Love is not a one-size-fits-all ceremony. It is a unique. woven tapestry of laughter, challenges, and the quiet strength we find in one another. Moreover, as we explore the fells of our new home, I’m reminded that the best views come after the longest climbs.

Happy Anniversary to my wonderful wife Nicola  And a Happy Valentine’s to you all. May you find your own “right path” this year.

In a world that moves so fast. Taking the time to pause! Celebrate our resilience is vital. In those hard moments,  of life and death. As a celebrant. I pride myself on listening to the quiet details that make your bonds special. If you’re planning a vow renewal or a milestone celebration in our beautiful Lakeland community, I’d love to walk that path with you. Reach out here  to say hello.