Everything you need to know about Micro Weddings

I’m sure you’ve heard of micro weddings. When most people hear micro weddings, they automatically think of elopements, but micro weddings aren’t elopements. An elopement is most often a spontaneous wedding, planned with barely any guests, but there is so much more to micro weddings.

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A micro wedding is a wedding with 30-40 guests or less. Micro weddings contain all the elements of a traditional wedding ceremony. The only difference is that they are on a smaller scale. You also have minimonies which are somewhere in between elopements and micro weddings. They feature more guests than a typical elopement does and fewer guests than a micro wedding would have.

The pandemic has caused a change in how things can be done worldwide. The wedding industry and people are finding ways to adapt to the new way of things. We’ve had people cancelling or postponing their wedding because it would be unsafe to hold them as they had initially planned. One of the ways that couples have adapted is by opting for micro weddings.

Micro weddings are being planned on their original wedding dates. Couples are choosing to hold off their big parties to later. Many experts in the industry and I have watched this trend grow. We’ve also seen a rise in packages being offered from the industry vendors for micro weddings too. That’s why I thought I should share a few words on them and what they entail. I’ve also shared some tips on how to plan a micro wedding if you discover that it’s what’s right for you in these times.

How to plan a micro wedding planning tips

  • But First, Is A Micro-Wedding Right for You?

Many people that choose to go for a micro wedding do so for a lot of reasons. These reasons could include things like their location and budget. So how do you determine if a micro wedding is what’s right for you? If you meet any of the criteria below, you should strongly consider having one.

  • You Like the Idea of a Private Destination Wedding

First off, not too many people can attend a destination wedding that is far away from home. So, if the idea of a destination wedding in a far off and remote destination is what appeals to you, then a micro wedding is right up your alley.

  • A Big Guest List Isn’t Really Your Thing.

Big parties can be fun, but when you think of your wedding, you wouldn’t really mind if most people didn’t show up. If the person described in that sentence sounds like you, then a micro wedding is what you should go for.

  • You’re on A Budget

Wedding budgets are quite simple. The more people that show up, the more you’ll have to spend. If you plan to minimize costs at your wedding because the economy is being a bit unfriendly, then you should look into a micro wedding.

  • You Want to Spend Time with Your Guests Personally

If you’ve always dreamed of a wedding where you can share some meaningful words with everyone who attends and say your thanks personally, a big wedding is out of the question for you. Imagine trying to say thanks individually to over 200 people! With a micro wedding of 30 to 40 guests, you could get away with this.

  • Splurging on Food and Drink Isn’t Your Thing.

Honestly, when it comes to guest numbers, one of the effects is that your food and drink bill goes up as your guest numbers go up. If you want to spend on other things like an expensive wedding dress, premium live entertainment or an extravagant honeymoon, your guest numbers have to go down, and a micro wedding is what you should have.

  • Big Gatherings Are Not Your Thing.

Let’s face it; some people are not just fans of large gatherings. The worst part is that since it’s your wedding day, you’ll be the focus of everyone’s attention the whole time too. If you found your anxiety rising as you read the last sentence, go for a wedding on a smaller scale like a micro wedding.

  • You Care About the Environment.

Honestly, regular weddings are not the most eco-friendly event. From the carbon footprint of every guest who attends to the wastage that comes from décor to leftover food, you won’t be considering the environment at all. If you’re trying to be eco-conscious, a reduction in the number of people coming to your wedding automatically cuts down on the carbon footprint of your wedding.

How Is the Industry Reacting to The Increase in Micro Weddings?

One thing that is constant in life is change, and the wedding industry is one that is great at adapting to change. Venues and other professionals are coming up with great new packages for micro weddings and tailoring their services to accommodate them.

  • Bottom Line

Whether it’s because you’re on a budget, you like your privacy, you want to keep your loved ones safe, or you just don’t like big events with too many people, not many couples want a big party of a wedding. Micro weddings have been around for long, but the pandemic is undoubtedly causing an increase in the trend. If you think a micro wedding would be perfect for you and your guests, please go ahead with your plans. The following tips will help you plan a successful and enjoyable micro wedding.

Tips for Planning Your Micro-Wedding | Family celebrant

Once you’ve given the green light to a micro-wedding, use the following 14 tips to create a smaller scale celebration — without losing any of the magic of your special occasion.

  • Find the Right Wedding Venue

A significant advantage of a micro-wedding is the abundance of venues available. While large weddings are limited to event spaces that can accommodate a big group, couples planning intimate nuptials usually have their pick of everything. You can choose from a boutique restaurant, an art gallery, or the top of an iconic structure to a private beach, a sunset cruise, or a secret garden.

There are few limits to where you can say “I do.” As many aspects of wedding planning depend on the venue, find the right one before moving on to the following tips.

  • Consider A Destination Wedding

As a micro-wedding can significantly lower your costs, you may find that your budget allows for a destination wedding. If this is something you’ve dreamed of, start looking into how to make it happen. As a bonus, it’s a lot easier to get 30 to 40 people to a far-off location than 150.

  • Only Invite Your Closest Friends and Family

One of the trickiest, but most important, aspects of a micro-wedding is only inviting the special people you and your fiancé can’t forgo. Create the invite list together, and be as discerning as possible with who makes the cut. (maybe check your mail inbox or WhatsApp or text messages and invite only those your who keep in touch with you.

  • Reconsider Allowing Plus Ones

If your invite list is pushing 50, without accounting for plus-ones, you can make them a no-go. Many of your guests will likely know each other, so you probably won’t get much flack for the decision. Even if you do, remember it’s your wedding. You have every right to say “No” to someone you barely know arriving on the arm of Cousin Anna or Uncle Bob.

  • Find the Right Celebrant

While it’s always good to find a Celebrant that resonates with you, it’s especially crucial for a small wedding as it’s such an intimate affair. You can either hire a professional Celebrant from the area where you’ll wed or travel with a celebrant you trust.

  • Decide If You Want A Wedding Party

Some couples choose not to have a wedding party during their micro-wedding, as the guest count is already so low. Alternatively, you and your partner could have one particular friend or family member beside you as you say “I do.” At the end of the day, the size of your wedding party is up to you, regardless of the guest count.

  • Get Creative with Wedding Elements

Fewer wedding guests usually mean more space for quality and creativity. A small guest list can result in a more unique venue, foodie-friendly meals, custom cocktails, involved games, elaborate decorations, and anything else you wish.Micro Weddings - Get Creative with Wedding Elements

  • Embrace the Services of a Wedding Planner

While it seems like wedding planning for a micro-wedding is easy, there are still elements you may forget or find overwhelming. Enter a wedding planner. This wedding pro can ensure every detail is considered and dissolve a significant amount of your stress.

  • Hire A Photographer from Essex local area

Regardless of how understated you want your wedding to be, it’s still a momentous occasion that should be captured by a professional photographer. Take your time searching for the right fit, perusing online portfolios, and calling top candidates to get a feel if your personalities mesh.

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  • Treat Yourself to An Amazing Wedding Reception

Just because you’re having a micro-wedding doesn’t mean you should forgo a fabulous reception. Because this type of wedding doesn’t require as many funds for food and drink, you’ll probably have more flexibility when it comes to selecting a venue, entertainment, decor, and fun details you think would enhance the celebration.

  • Decide If You Want DIY Floral Displays or A Florist

Although trying to create DIY centrepieces and other floral displays for a large wedding can seem like a recipe for disaster, it’s doable for micro-wedding. If you enjoy getting crafty with flowers and foliage, consider making your own displays. Alternatively, you can always seek out a florist to help you develop a concept that matches your vision.

Decide If You Want DIY Floral Displays or A Florist, Micro Weddings, Without an abundance of guests, creating thoughtful touches is more doable.

Micro Weddings, Without an abundance of guests, creating thoughtful touches is more doable.

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All ready for the couples Celebrant Led Wedding Ceremony

  • Make It Personal

Without an abundance of guests, creating thoughtful touches is more doable. This can include handwritten invitations, calligraphy place cards, arrangements of hand-picked wildflowers, and anything else that piques your interest.

  • Opt for Your Favourite Sweets

When you’re not trying to provide dessert for over 100 people, you can forgo the cake and get more creative. For example, if you love homemade cookies, pie, or candy, feel free to follow that urge. Some couples hosting a micro-wedding also choose to have a small cake and a separate table with a variety of sweets.

  • Determine When You Need to Acquire the Marriage License

Some areas have numerous hoops to jump through before you receive the marriage license. It’s wise to look into the requirements a few months before you tie the knot. This is especially important if you’re hoping to get legally hitched.

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